by Morgan S. Hazelwood
Sometimes, when you’re stuck at some writing stage for too long, it can be hard to remember why you started this thing in the first place. Whether you’re drafting, editing, revising, querying, submitting, or marketing, there’s likely some point where you feel like you’re never going to reach the next stage.
Me? I’m currently stuck in the [Query -> Get Feedback -> Revise -> Get Beta Feedback -> Edit -> Send More Queries] loop. And have been, on and off, for nearly 3 years.
It can be really disheartening.
Fortunately, I keep getting small tastes–little reminders–of just why I do this.
Here are 10 things I love most about being a writer:
1 – Exploring new worlds!
Whether it’s a ‘what-if’ scenario in my head, or filling in the details from some hardly remembered dream, creating a world, exploring it, and finding out how it works is something I find FASCINATING.
2 – Meeting New Characters
I am a friendly person. I love getting to know my characters, finding out their hopes and dreams. Being there for them when they face their fears. And? Watching them grow into the person they were always meant to be.
Plus? I like watching jerks get their comeuppance.
3 – Finding out what happens and why!
Often, when I start a story, I know a couple of the key scenes and the broad strokes that make up my characters. It’s not until I’m there with them in the trenches that I find out how they got there and what pushes them on.
Instead of just a highlights reel, I get to see them, every step of the journey.
4 – When you get that turn of phrase. Just. Right.
This is a bit more of a technique related reason, but it’s true.
Sometimes, you have an emotion or a concept that you agonize over conveying to the audience. The phrasing might come on the first try, or 12 tries in, on the fourteenth draft, but when you get it right, you can SEE your readers opting to highlight and share that sucker.
You can see your story connecting with someone who’s been there before and needed to hear it.
5 – Getting to read other writers works early
I’ve opened myself up to the writing community and they’ve welcomed me with open arms.
The more beta reading/critiquing I do, the more I realize just how creative and talented my friends are. And? The more I dream about how awesome it will be when we’re all the big name authors, and we can say “I knew them when…”
6 – Helping my friends fine-tune their novels
The flip side of number 5. This way, I get to watch great manuscripts turn into amazing stories that fly off the shelves. Being there as they learn and grow — and hopefully picking up a few things, myself.
7 – The terrifying hope that comes when an agent asks for more pages
Hope has never been so sharp as when I get that request or send off those pages.
Need I say more?
8 – Having an answer outside of my day-job when people ask me, “so, what do you do?”
I’m in the DC metro area. Asking people, ‘so, what do you do?’ is asked almost before they get your name. But? I hang out with a lot of creatives, and I know that I’m more than just my day-job. I like supporting my friends, consuming webcomics, novels, and art. But? I like being able to contribute something, too. Not just as a consumer.
9 – Seeing how far I’ve come and how much I’ve accomplished
I may not be agented or published yet. But I’ve got one polished novel, two full rough drafts, a WIP, a handful of short stories, some poetry, a blog, and a community that supports me.
All this stuff takes work and dreaming and persistence. It might be ego, but I have to acknowledge to myself that I’m the reason it’s happened.
10 – And my favorite? Serendipity
When I figure out a plot point or background detail that makes everything just come together.
Guest post contributed by Morgan Hazelwood. Morgan is currently working on the fantasy coming-of-age adventure Flesh and Ink. These days, when not writing, you can find her devouring book series on her kindle, hitting the gym, dressing up at local conventions, or feeding her web comic addiction. She also lends her voice to Anansi Storytelling – a radio-style podcast of folk tales from around the world.
Love number 3. I find at least parts of my stories ‘write themselves.’ So it is fun to introduce an item to my characters and see what they do with it. Of course, I know it is me, making connections, but it is still fun.
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Your post has inspired me to get back to writing. I’m at a stage where I haven’t been writing (at least not fiction) for several years – due to losing all my work in a disaster some time ago. The stories are still there in my head but I, for some reason, don’t want to rehash them from the top. While it’s true they would probably turn out better this time around, there’s something off putting about navigating my way back through the plot, and sub plots. Maybe it’s just a sort of feeling of loss, as though there’s something missing which I cannot/will not reclaim. One’s writing does seem much like a pet when it comes to our nurturing of the story, and its characters.
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You nailed it on so many levels here. This life we chose is the whole package. It’s not just one thing. For me, it’s the people I’ve met, pushing myself, success and even failing. So much I have learned. Most of all: As long as it’s fun I’ll keep doing it.
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My wife often quips, “he’s much less of an asshole when he’s writing!”
I’m fairly sure that’s a compliment…
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Good article; esp. #2: most of my books come about from meeting someone in the book before.
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I can agree with everything you say about being a writer, I just wish those serendipitous moments would trot along more often…
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Reblogged this on Claire Plaisted – Indie Author and commented:
What a great idea. I remember doing several posts about my journey into writing. Now, this type of post would be a great update…I’ll be thinking about this. Meanwhile, thank you for sharing your post and thoughts.
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Excellent post.
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I’m in the process of writing my 1st draft. 68000 words in and I still need to get to know my characters properly and their location. I need to do a lot of research and understand a lot of stuff that I don’t know. I think of myself as an aspiring author but I also write two blogs, I work and have two young children.
The dream that my manuscript might one day catch the eye of an agent is right now a dream. Right now I am writing and trying to write daily whether its a blog post, a short story or my novel. Thanks for an interesting post! I still have a massive amount to learn.
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Number 10 is the best! Especially when I have a character say something that seems like a throwaway line, but it becomes an important plot point further down the line. One of the best feelings ever! 😀
Also, I fully agree with all of #2. My main character in my ongoing story has gone on a long journey of change and growth. When he finally got married, I was so happy and excited I was like “Ahh! My little baby’s gone and got married!” 😆
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Reblogged this on Where Genres Collide Traci Kenworth YA Author & Book Blogger and commented:
Good points!
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Hi Morgan! Excellent post! I especially relate to #7… oh, that nailbiting hope!
BTW, re your polished novel, have you had a lot of beta readers for it? I assume so. Why do you think it hasn’t been snapped up? Are you targeting your queries to agents who love your genre…and are open to submissions?
I’m sure it’ll happen for you! You’ve got too many irons in the fire for it *not* to!
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Of course! I’ve had around 10 different beta readers and such between different rounds. I’m currently revising for around the 4th time with a mentor. I should nudge her for the pages she’s had since July…
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Nudge away! She’s had it for weeks!
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I figured I’d finish this round of edits on my MG story, and then I’d nudge her. She does have PAYING work and the mentorship officially ended 3 months ago, so this is bonus feedback.
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I hear you! Well good luck with it!!
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I dread the time when I need to start sending out my query letters … everyone says how resilient one needs to be. I think I shall have to start working on my rhino skin! Katie
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Introducing my characters gives me an unexplainable joy
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